letting go...

its hard to lose a loved one....no matter how it happened...whether by divine intervention, or losing that person to somebody else,these feelings are present...emptiness,numbness,never ending sadness...though the latter is rather more painful coz it comes with betrayal,unfulfilled dreams and promises, and a broken heart. But come to think of it, sometimes one has to experience all these emotions to come out as a better and stronger person. After all, the world doesnt start and end with that one person,he/she must not be the be-all and end-all of the other's existence...what one has to do is stand up from the mistakes,learn from them and be wise in dealing with any relationship the next time...some says it's holding on that makes you strong, sometimes it's letting go.. remember, there is always a rainbow after the rain....